After watching an episode of one of my favorite shows of all time (hint: its off the air now), I had a huge revolation! Life really can be simple, its easy if we just take everything back to the basics. What do I mean? Well, for example; if you've invested a good chunk of your time, energy and life into a relationship with someone and it ends, sometimes we beat ourselves up over the "what-if's".
You know, what if I were more attentaive, what if I were more sensitive, what if I were less independent...
I say forget the what-if's! If said ex is now happily involved with someone else, its more than likely not due to all of your, what-if's, its because some people kust like vanilla!
Yup, that's it. Sometimes a little texture,a little flavor, that little something different is just too much for one to handle.
This theory also applies in the work setting; there is always the ass kisser, the bully, the boss, the drama queen, and the trouble maker. I say in this case choosing vanilla is the best choice. The neutral, the number, the nameless employee with no known personal life to discuss.
Ok so maybe I'm tired, or maybe all the healthy food has gone to my head..nah, maybe it was just a really appropriate tv episode that played for me tonight.
Either way, when life seems extra complicated, try and bring it back to the basics, even if you end up being the crazy flavor that someone just chose vanilla over
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