Is it worth it?

OK folks, when do say when?   Many couples find themselves in relationships well past their expiration dates out of comfort, convenience, and or the fear of being alone. The list of excuses NOT to leave an unhappy relationship or even worse, marriage is looong (I've been there myself).

What I have discovered in recent years, and this may be  to some, but life does exist outside of these toxic and draining people!  Your heart heals, your list of new friends tends AND your wallet seems to grow after saying ta-ta to Mr/Mrs Wrong.  A break up or divorce can be the end of the world, is completely devastating in most cases but it is in fact a situation that heals itself in time and DOES get better (if you want it to of course).  After the trauma of it all subsides, sweep up the pieces of your broken heart, discover a new hobby or get back in to an old one and consider it a fresh start to YOUR new life.

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The purpose of this entry is not to persuade you in to a break up or have you  walk away from something that could be terrific with some minor effort, I'm merely sharing the idea that if you ARE unhappy it doesn't have to be that way.  Life is too short to spend it with someone whom you find yourself in constant friction with.

I am living, breathing proof that life after love and repeated self inflicted heart ache (I tend to care too much about people that I matter too little to) does exist and it's MAGNIFICENT.

Today's lesson: YOU - Drama = Happiness